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The violence on the monitor issue

June 18th, 2008, by Attila Borcsa in Conscious living, 2 Comments

Whether you are a parent or not, you must have been running into a debate on children being affected by violence on TV or in video games. For myself, being in a milieu of active parenthood, the issue presents itself often in a sensitive way. Actually this is one of the challenges for the actual generation of parents. I say parents, because for the kids it is part of their life, without options or much choice. You might be a parent already, or you will be, or maybe not. But the challenge of giving a response to this issue will reach you. The sooner the better, so, should kids be protected from all violence seen on the monitor?

Here it is what did in fact provoke me to hit the keyboard. Part of the media in the country where I live in picked up the story pertaining to a study by the Harvard Medical School Center for Mental Health and Media. They have studied “the effects of video games on young teenagers” as they say on “real children and families in real situations”. The results were intriguing compared to previous assertions on the topic: video games are means to diminish stress, and do not increase tension or aggressive tendencies.

It is intriguing, it is the opposite of how we were told before, it has news value in media. So far, so good. But then almost instantly a so called authority on matters of child psychology reacted. Until it is still hot, you might say. The guy is not young, belongs to the (media created) image of psychology guru. Meaning that whenever the issue of protecting children from any form of aggression shows up, he is there, bringing you the wisdom of unquestionable authority in the field. But this time I just found it quite hilarious.

The major argument against the Grand Theft Childhood research was Tom and Jerry. That it all started with Tom and Jerry. Tom and Jerry are the roots of all evil.

Now should I be concerned about letting my child watch Tom and Jerry? Is Tom and Jerry dangerous? Will Tom and Jerry “led to violence through easy identification with the aggressors” as the wise man says?

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Comments on "The violence on the monitor issue":

  1. teodora says:
    June 18th, 2008 at 10:36 am

    I was at a family with a baby some days ago and just saw when the little guy learned to turn himself over from lying on the belly to the back. He was on the floor (on a mat) and they had the TV near hanged on the wall. The parents just wanted to turn the kid away from the evil TV which he was watching so much that he stretched his neck and lifted his head up so that he managed to turn over for the first time. I don’t know what was on TV..
    As for Tom and Jerry I think these statements are stupid. Kids should learn to live in the Real World. Some sane protection is OK like not watching strange porn in kindergarden or whatever, but the most important is having a good, loving family, isn’t it? I wonder how much you can be concerned about it in real, maybe it is just a good topic :)

  2. Attila Borcsa (author) says:
    June 18th, 2008 at 10:57 am

    So the evil TV had a good influence after all… I like the story!

    I guess the topic is worthy, I had my say before on this and still believe that we have a completely wrong attitude concerning aggression. Although being one of the utmost preoccupation of our times, sort of an obsession.

    What I am actually concerned (a little) here are the authoritative voices deified through the media, thus by the masses. And the receptivity towards those persistently propagated ideas. It is like the TV tells us not to let kids watch TV, but you have to keep watching it to know what to do. Wonder what “The Cable Guy” would say here…

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